Hearts are
pounding, blood pressure is rising and anger is building at the sight of a
woman lying lifeless on the ground of Lahore High Court in Pakistan . She
is one more casualty or victim of honour killing that we get to read about-----many
incidence of are never reported to the authorities. Cries of condemnation and
protestations are muffled for the sake of keeping up the pride of the family
and a crime is not seen as a crime anymore. Soon it becomes acceptable to see
women as perpetrators in trying to bring shame to their families by making a
choice to either marry someone they love or refusing to marry someone they
don’t love. Being of Pakistani origin I often come across questions to
determine whether my environment connotes a situation where choices have been
forced on me. Although I am fortunate to have a partner who supports me but
each time someone inquires me a part of me wrenches back to recall stories of
friends and cousins who were made to realize they had no right to make their
own choice in the country of my origin.
If open and
democratic societies are to function in an environment where civil liberties
and freedom of choice is to be given to all, isn’t it the duty of every democracy-loving
political party in Pakistan to stage similar protest to condemn honour killings
like they do to protest against TV channels whose views are considered
unacceptable because they support forces with agenda working against the
national integrity, or to highlight drone attacks in the Northern region. If
Islam is a religion to uphold the honour of a woman will this incident bring
some condemnation from religious scholars and commentators like Dr Farhat
Hashmi, Maulana Fazlur Rahman and Aamir Liaquat who have always highlighted
Western ideologies as the root cause of moral degradation and immorality in
societies!
The reason
why Shafilea Ahmad was killed by her own parents is 2003 in Bradford
are no different from what caused the death of Farzana Iqbal. In both cases
parents killed their own daughter. While Mr Iqbal who married Farzana claims
that nobody came to help his wife when she was being attacked by her own family
members, it is believed that Shafilea Ahmad’s parents were helped by others in
disposing off her body. Misogyny which leads to crimes of honour killings is
aided and supported by feudalism or interpretation of a belief which considers
women as inferior and dependant on male support to exist in society.
Is it
reasonable to hope that Muslim scholars and commentators in Britain will be
forthcoming in highlighting honour killings and crimes against women which take
place within their own community; because they do happen! Surely saving a human
life is of more value than blasphemy charges on creating cartoons and debating
segregation in universities.